Winters always remind me of the time spent in Buffalo, New York. I can safely regard those 20 months as the most phenomenal time of my life. I spent two seasons of harsh winters there, and it was a life changing experience.
The most notable thing about that place was that there was an ineffable energy in that atmosphere. It used to be freezing cold, with temperatures around -20, snowing every single morning. But none of that stopped anyone from getting out and doing everyday work. We used to walk (at least) 10 minutes to board the college shuttle. For an average Karachiite, it’s an impossible task. It’s not a piece of cake walking in a blizzard, but we used to do it everyday, and we didn’t feel a thing. Yes we were well protected with layers of clothes and coverings, but none of that works when you are walking against the snowy wind striking you face and it feels like you are being hit by tiny little stones. It was that bad, but no one ever used the weather as an excuse of not coming to work, or school.
We used to remove snow from our driveway, using shovels, hands, and everything that helped. I used to go out wearing only shorts and t-shirt, and my friends used to yell at me for being careless, and even they were equally careless, but none of us felt lethargic because of cold. None of us felt too cold to stay home. We didn’t even get sick. I have never seen so much energy anywhere else.
That’s when I learnt that if one is determined enough, it doesn’t matter if it is hot or cold, raining or snowing. Strong determination overcomes everything. Neither rain, nor snow, nor sleet, nor heat, nor gloom of night can stop the determined men.
Back in Karachi, when I see rain affecting the daily schedules of people, streets being blocked for days, schools and offices being shut down, I realize why we are not among the developed nations yet. We have to make a system that is not affected by weather, before anything else.



At least today was much better wintry weather wise. Cloudy, drizzly and a wonderful chilly wind.
We definitely need to work on a system…to make our city weather-proof…this is ridiculous…the city generating the most business and the core of the whole country’s economy…is in such a state….WHAT TO DO? OH WHAT TO DO?
Salaam,
I spent many years on the East Coast & now that I’m in temperate San Francisco I don’t miss the snows of Boston at all!
I agree that a better sewage system, etc., would help cities in developing nations function better. All that has to be taken in the larger context of corruption, funds, and development of course.
Good luck in the days ahead leading up to your wedding.
Here’s a post by a blogging friend about marriage that might be useful:
http://achelois.wordpress.com/2006/12/09/on-marriage/
Warmly,
Baraka